Tuesday, February 3, 2015

Setsubun or "Bean Throwing Day"

Setsubun or "Bean Throwing Day"

February 3rd is 節分の日(setsu-bun) in Japan.  It is similar to Spain's tomato throwing food fight, but with roasted soybeans. Yes, there is a celebration to have a huge food fight at a holy site. No, I do not claim to understand why it would be a shrine, but it is. 

 
Setsubun is a traditional ceremony (not an official holiday off of work) that happens right before
 立春(rish-shyun), which is the first day of Spring which is February 4th.


  The kanji's 節分(setsu-bun) literally means "Split the Season". The Japanese celebrating leaving Winter and moving into Spring. It still feels like Winter across most of Japan, but alas it is the official start of Spring so they do it on the day. The culture likes to follow the rules.


A few activities or rituals are performed on this day. The most popular one is held at shrines all over Japan. It is known as  豆撒き(mame-ma-ki)... or bean throwing to us English speaking folks.
 

It is said that on the day the season changes evil arises and demons bring bad luck. But thanks to good 'ol soy beans you too can ward off evil spirits.   Some people (I am not sure who gets picked for this task or why), but some people wear the evil demon "ogre" masks, while everyone else throws roasted soybeans at them. Seriously, who would volunteer to be the Demon? Wait a second, I can think of a few people who would probably enjoy this part.


Anyway, people don't only throw the beans. You also are supposed to eat as many beans as you are old to ward off the evil spirits. And, you get those beans off of the floor after people throw them at the demons. I'm kidding. There are bags of beans for sale that you eat. The Japanese are amazingly clean and would not eat off the dirty floor.
 
When throwing the beans you  yell "鬼は外!福は内" which means "Demons Out! Luck In!" It sounds like, "oni wa soto; fuku wa uchi". I never could copy what they were saying. I had to look it up.


The celebration is so popular it has it's own KitKat and Aero bars! The KitKat is roasted soybean and dark chocolate. No, I didn't buy them only because I was out of Yen :(  I would have made someone in this house try it! 

Some shrines get really into the festivities. They bring in celebrities or sumo wrestlers to throw the beans. There is also candy and money thrown at certain shrines.  It is basically just a huge party to celebrate the changing of seasons.


On Setsubun, there is also a traditional food eaten in a certain way. (Of course there is! In American we eat cabbage and black-eyed peas on New Year's, turkey on Thanksgiving and ham at Easter. Why would other countries not have a special food on certain holidays?) In Japan, it is customary to eat "ehou-maki" on Setsubun. This is a large, uncut sushi roll with certain fillings based on the area in which you live. Here around Tokyo, the roll is filled with avocado, crab, fried egg... And several other options. As long as it has seven fillings. 

 
But there is another way of celebrating setsubun no hi, and that’s with a big, long, uncut sushi roll called ehou-maki. There are several rules to the ehou-maki that I found interesting.
This made me react in So, what makes an ehou-maki different from a regular sushi roll? There are basically three rules:
  • It must contain seven ingredients, because seven is a lucky number.
  • It must not be cut, because it might cut (off) your luck.
  • You have to eat it while facing the lucky direction, which changes every year! This year’s lucky directly is hinoe (丙 (ひのえ)), which is a little bit to the south of south-south-east on a regular compass. If you can read kanji, this page has a good chart.
  • Finally, you must eat the whole roll in total silence!

Well, never mind this whole celebration. If that WHOLE thing has to be eaten in
TOTAL SILENCE, this family is hosed. We will never be able to accomplish that!

A final way of celebrating setsubun no hi is to take a nice long relaxing bath, with some slices of yuzu in the water. Bathing in hot yuzu-infused water is supposed to get rid of bad spirits. Yuzu is basically a blend of an orange and an tangerine, if I am reading the translation correctly.

In Japan you can get bath essences with yuzu oil. I forgot to grab those when I was out shopping locally this week, so I'm just cutting up some oranges and throwing them in my bathwater.  Hey, any excuse to take some alone time in a hot bath works for me!
 
You can see why today is a great day in Japan. It has always been a great day in my family. It is my baby brother's birthday! He is pretty much the typical "baby of the family": spoiled, funny, know-it-all and tells all our secrets. He is much more than just that though. He is dedicated and strong, hard-working and caring. We adore him everyday, but on this date, we say an extra special prayer of thanksgiving for him being in our lives. Happy Birthday Uncle Ryan. May all  your dreams come true!
 

Until next time, enjoy the "split of the seasons" and love on each other without throwing beans please!
 
Living the Life,
~Aggie Amy


 

Wednesday, January 7, 2015

Classy & Clean Narita



 
 
 
Here is our view on the way to Tokyo's Narita International Airport. It is gorgeous!
 
I have traveled a lot. And I do mean A LOT! My entire life, I have been on.the.go.  I flew alone as a very young child and am completely comfortable on almost any plane, anywhere. I have moved over 21 times. It is totally crazy to most people, but it is my normal. My brats think it is normal too.
 
Having been mobile my whole life, I have visited seen quite a few airports. I have flown internationally, been delayed hours on end and even had to sleep in an airport or two.  
We, unexpectedly, had to go back to the US. We had to fly commercial out of Narita International Airport in Tokyo. This airport is just such a testament to the quality of the Japanese people.
 
Narita is a massive, sparkling clean, very modern airport. Why would I want to tell you about an airport? Well, because the Japanese do it RIGHT when it comes to shopping at transportation hubs. These are just a few of my bags ---->

I'm here to tell you, Japan knows how to pack in greatness wherever you have to travel. At train stations across the country you will find some of the greatest places to eat, freshest groceries and nicest bathrooms. It is actually a pleasure to travel.

You know what it is like to travel, right? You are stressed and hurried. You are wondering who in the world designed an airport where the bathrooms are miles away from the restaurants.

Helll-lllooo, do people not see the connection between these two places? Then, when you have been stuck in the airport for hours and decide to get a bite to eat, you realize you may need to take out a loan to get a hamburger. It is THAT expensive to eat at an airport. Well, not in Japan.

I'm here to tell you, Japan knows how to pack in greatness wherever you have to travel. At train stations across the country you will find some of the greatest places to eat, freshest groceries and nicest bathrooms. It is actually a pleasure to travel.

The Narita airport is nothing but relaxing. Yes, relaxing.  From chocolate covered potato chips to a Pokemon painted airplane, the kids had a blast in the airport. The prices are shockingly... normal! We bought several fun items, like random KitKat flavors and candy making kits. We even found a few quirky candies for the kids to try. All at the same prices we would pay in town at regular stores. They do not mark up items at the airports here.
 
In the so-clean-you-can-eat-off-the-floor bathrooms, there are 'toddler chairs' in each stall. This chair, which I know looks a tad like a urinal, is a safe and clean place to put that kiddo while you do your business.

There is also a random little sign that ensures you know the "proper posture" to use while using their potty. Umm, I have no comment on this one. Just passing on info.

The Wifi is fast and it is FREE. That is the only way our kids get Wifi because, well, because I am cheap. Oh,  did I mention, that the carts are all FREE and everywhere you look? Plus, they have people to check you in within minutes of going through the door. In the US you have to be at the airport at least two hours earlier than your flight to have enough time to check in, get through the long lines at security and get down to the gates. If you are flying to an international location, you are supposed to be there 4 hours ahead of time. In Japan, you only have to get there early if you want to shop. Seriously, you walk straight through security. There are no lines, no lines at all. Even the small shops in the airport have numerous employees to help keep you from waiting. It is truly refreshing.
 
There are recycling bins all along the way. Typical Japan.  For those of you who have never traveled to Europe or Asia, they do recycling SO much better than we do in the States. I'm not exactly sure why. I doubt you can tell but this recycling is for: Newspaper/Magazine, PET Bottle (plastic bottle), Bottle (glass), and Can. They even have pictures so young kids can recycle too.

What they don't do well, or I guess that depends on how you feel about smoking. Here is the "Smoking Room" at Narita. It is for adults only, and you don't smell or see smoke anywhere. It is this way all over Japan, but it is still fascinating to see it.

A few more gates down from the smoking room you can find the "Nursery". I went inside, because come on you know that is exactly what I would do. I wanted to see what it looked like and... well, I wanted to see all the adorable Japanese babies. (I would so take home a few of those sweet faces if someone wanted to give me a couple!) Well, wouldn't you know it. Inside there was a beautiful, relaxing oasis for moms and dads. There was a private area for breastfeeding, free diapers, a sink, filtered water and samples of formulas. It was awesome!

There are 'priority' chairs in the airport similar to the ones on the trains. The chairs are reserved for elderly, sick, pregnant or those with babies. We have never seen the chairs used by anyone who did not need the chair. That would be dishonest.

When Japanese travel they want to be seen as classy and respectable because they feel like they are representing their homeland. Throughout the airport you see men in suits, women in dresses and even kids dressed up in their "Sunday best".  We were discussing this as we walked through the mall. I am a "typical" American in a quite a few ways. I did not allow the kids to fly in the sweatpants. That's just not a good representation to ours of Americans. I did let the kids wear sweatshirts though, so I thought I was doing well. About the time decided, again, how much we love the cleanliness of Japan we walked to the next gate to this chick.a.dee :


Ugh! Meet "Toe Jam Girl". Not only is she dressed in sweats pulled up to her calves like she is resting at home, but she has her FEET ON THE CHAIR! Nasty! You only have to be in Japan two minutes to see how they how they hate dirty shoes. She is disrespecting their whole culture and could care less. We watched as Japanese keep staring at her, as if they were secretly yelling, "Get your yucky feet off our chairs!". No one said anything to her. That would be rude, and would not happen. Even my 9-year old wanted to go tell her that she was 'being rude' because 'maybe she doesn't know how much she is offending the locals'. And, THAT right there folks is one of the key reasons why we have military around the world. We want to learn each other's cultures, so we can understand and respect our friends. 

After we left "Toe Jam Girl", we kept touring the airport. We love to look at the stores, and study the people. (Yes, we are that nerdy.) We found the coolest inflatable plane that matches the real Pokemon plane. (This plane is used for domestic flights in Japan and is always packed! Last time we checked it was completely booked for the next 18 months!)

All parents think their kids are smart, but I have proof. My kids always know what restaurants in Japan are serving. Cool, huh? They can just check out the name of the place, and study the plastic food in the windows... oh, wait... that's how they are doing it! Outside almost all of the restuarants in Japan there are elaborate displays of food. It is brilliant. It makes people hungry and lets those crazy Americans, I mean non-Japanese, to pick out what they want by simply pointing. I doubt that is why they do it, but it is a bonus for us. We started to walk around the airport's "restaurant row" to find some eats. Look at what we found. The food above is fake. It is a whole new art form.  There are even drinks that look like they have condensation on them. It is clean and intriging for those wandering around trying to decide what to eat.
 
After walking a bit, we found what this crew wanted to eat. The US has Hershey's milk chocolate. Japan have Milky chocolate. This company is about the same quality as Hershey's. It is good, but certainly not the best grade of chocolate. The airport has a Milky restaurant. We have been wanting to try one, but have simply not had the chance. That all changed when we found ourselves with a few hours of freetime at Narita. Off to the Milky Cafe we went! (We went to the airport thinking like Americans think. We thought we had to get there 3-4 hours early. Japan is so efficent that you can easily breeze through the airport for an international flight in less than an hour. It is such a difference!)

 

Milky's was such a hoot. We have been here for 7 months at this point. I know enough Japanese to say 'hello', smile and point to order. I can say 'excuse me' or 'thank you'. I can count, a tiny bit. The kids know way more than I do because they learn Japanese in school (and Spanish). Here is where it gets laughable. We walked into the Milky Cafe and in Japanese told the hostess how many people we had to sit. We also greeted her and said 'thanks' when she handed us the menus. We asked for water. She left until we know what we wanted, we rang the magic bell that called her back and we ordered- mostly in English I would say. Well, a few minutes later an American couple came and sat down near us. The waitress created them in English and got them an English menu. WHAT? Why didn't see greet us in English? Where was our English menu. I giggled and shared my observation with the kids. The waitress came back and overhead me. She smiled, bowed and told me that, "You were trying so hard to fit in I didn't realize you didn't know Japanese." Well, I have heard it all. I was mistaken for a Japanese speaker. (I can clearly never get mistaken for being Japanese with my tall body, blue eyes and light hair.) I blended in, kinda. Wow, I'm impressed. I know it is silly, but I didn't have to have an English menu to survive. I can do it with my Southern stubborness hard-headness.

The Milky Cafe was great. I had my favorite fried rice and meat combo. Actually, I shared with a boy because we all wanted desserts. The girls had the kids' meals with all sorts of goodies. Carson had a crazy pasta with eel or something slimy. He ate it. I smelled it and decided... not.gonna.happen unless I am on Survior and HAVE to eat that junk-o-la. The desserts were just as good as they look! The strawberry cake is a very popular Christmas time treat, so we knew that was a must have. Our total bill for two large adult meals, two kids meals and four desserts was a whomping $28. See, even this guy was full. That almost never happens!


Our departure time was getting closer. We headed to the gate.  After the family got settled, Momma cracked her whip. This woman made her poor kiddos get out their books and do homework. Yes, I hear that judgement from you. We missed a week of school to go back to the States, so they had a ton of work to do. They were 'bored'- which they knw is like a curse word in my book- so out came the homework.

We watched as our United Dreamliner 787 pulled into the gate. For those of you who don't know me personally, I have a love affair with planes. This was my very first time on the new Dreamliner. I actually booked us on a longer layover, in a way different place because I wanted to fly this plane!

As we got called on the plane my tallest son turned around to me and said, "This plane Rocks!" When youa re over 6' tall like we are you hate that moment when you first step on the plane. You all of sudden realize that you will be bent over for the next... 14 hours! Not on the Dreamliner. The plane is so tall, and there is just so much room. We got to our seats and every seat had this little package: headphones, new blanket and new pillow. I'll take it. Once seated we started enjoying the entertainment package on each and every chair. There are screens with preloaded movies, music and TV shows. There is a map mode of the area we are flying over (not as interesting when we were flying over a w-h-o-l-e lotta ocean). You can push a different map and see how far we have flown, how long we have to go until touchdown, the temperature outside and even how fast the plane is traveling. Can you tell how happy these sweet faces are to be going home to the land of Chick-fil-a, Target and English? They were thrilled until they found out the trip would take us over 30 hours of traveling. Then, well they were still thrilled. And a little weary.

They survived. The slept, and ate more meals that anyone needed just to have something to do. They all watched several movies and napped on and off. We landed and only had five more flights ahead of us in the next 19 days. I told you, we travel. A lot. We flew more than 15,000 miles this trip.

We spent almost three weeks in the US. I wish that I could say that is was easy and fun. Parts of it were. Parts of it weren't. Unfortanetly, part of our mobile lifestyle means that we almost always see our family and friends when we are in the midst of a long trip. We have spent days trying to get to them, built the trip up in our heads and it doesn't always turn out like we expect. We try to fit in and bond with folks when we only see them 5 days a year, if that. It is hard to do. If the kids have a bad day then that is remembered for the next year until we get to the family again and try again. This trip I had some bad days. Traveling is tough on the parents too.

But, in the end, my family is meant to do this. I adore that man of mine and this is his dream. So, it has become my dream. This smiling faces have rough days and tough travels. Still, they get up in the middle of the night to return rental cars, the grab their iPads and shuttle onto another plane. They grab their Passimo train passes and jump on the train to Yokohama. They sit on a bus to Seattle. They last through another road trip in Carolina. They have grown up 'on the road'. These four babies where born in three different countries. They know that the culture may change, their address is temporary and their 'house' is never theirs for very long.

Still, they are brats.  The know sacrifice and strength firsthand. They can adapt and overcome. They are comfortable in their skin. Their parents adore them, even when they have a bad day. They know they can count on their God to stay steady in the midst of the storms of life. They even remind this Momma of that sometimes.

Socking Away those Frequent Flyer Miles,
~Aggie Amy

Thursday, December 4, 2014

Kentucky = Christmas

 Wait until you hear what Japan's version of Christmas!

This country is a true marketer's DREAMLAND!

The Huffington Post explains the story like this,

"It’s Christmas Eve in Japan. Little boys and girls pull on their coats, the twinkle of anticipation in their eyes. Keeping the tradition alive, they will trek with their families to feast at … the popular American fast food chain KFC.


Christmas isn’t a national holiday in Japan—only one percent of the Japanese population is estimated to be Christian—yet a bucket of “Christmas Chicken” (the next best thing to turkey—a meat you can’t find anywhere in Japan) is the go-to meal on the big day. And it’s all thanks to the insanely successful “Kurisumasu ni wa kentakkii!” (Kentucky for Christmas!) marketing campaign in 1974.
When a group of foreigners couldn’t find turkey on Christmas day and opted for fried chicken instead, the company saw this as a prime commercial opportunity and launched its first Christmas meal that year: Chicken and wine for 2,920 yen (at that time about $10)—pretty pricey for the mid-seventies. Today the christmas chicken dinner (which now boasts cake and champagne) goes for about 3,990 yen ($40)."
We had heard the story, but thought it must be overblown. Well, it's NOT!

We quickly realized how popular KFC was. It is the ONLY drive thru we have seen in all of Japan. However, it doesn't usually look crowded and the prices are about 20 % higher than the US. (That is the typical amount of mark up around here.)

The second week of OCTOBER our local KFC started putting up their Christmas decorations. Here is COL Sanders himself with the kiddos staring into the sun. (Read: not happy with Momma, but trying to please her.)



There are several options available for purchase but they all MUST be pre-ordered by December 10th! That gives KFC enough time to ship, prep, pack and hire seasonal help for each store. 

The options look like this:



As you can see there are a few choices sold as "sets". You can also add on more chicken or sides. The large "Roastiessee" chicken that you can pick up everyday from the grocery store in the US sells for almost $60!  Now, back home that same size chicken is $6, all day, everyday. Here in Japan though this type of chicken is just not available.


The Christmas holiday in Japan goes like this: 

Take down the Halloween decor.
Totally ignore that really weird holiday called "Thanksgiving".
Order your KFC holiday meal. 
Wait two more weeks and then:
Break out the tinsel, put up the tree picture of that tree, layer on the lights hang up some window clings and cue the Christmas carols.

Ignore the true reason for Christmas. Forget about the precious child born that night. Put some blinders on to the King of Kings born in that stable to a virgin, whom Wise Men walked miles to worship. 

If only 1% of all of Japan celebrates Christmas for the true reasons, then those of us who KNOW the True King have a lot of work to do.

So, I won't ask you what you will be eating for Christmas.

Maybe turkey, ham, KFC or -our family's favorite- chicken enchiladas. 

Instead, I will ask you what are you DOING to spread God's love this holiday season? 

Write a note to all those people who serve you throughout the year: mailmen, coffee barista, dentist, nail tech, vet... anyone. Invite them to your local church service. Offer them a place at your dinner table. Give them your time.

We all need a little love. We are desire real friends, not just those people you see once and awhile. Real friends are friends who keep us grounded, who tell us the truth and who push us towards the Lord.

Merry Christmas to you & yours!

Whatever you eat...


Come Let Us Adore Him,
~Aggie Amy